Pizza

The Pizza Option

Food for your relationship

What is he talking about, should be the question your asking. Think about the fact that we have two people coming together with completely different likes and needs to be met. So how do we do this without giving up a part of ourselves - easy "Think Pizza" .

He likes sausage and a blend of cheeses, you on the other hand like green peppers and mushrooms - now we have an impass or do we? some couples would fight over this saying you don't care what I like, some would just change to burgers and forget it. But did you really lose that taste for the pizza?

In most cases you still have this dripping taste in your mouth for the melted cheese and sausage, which has gone un-met. this is were we ask our partner to come back to the table, now look at it in this light, he gets his sauage and cheeses on one half and she gets her mushroom and green peppers on the other on the other half, but it's still ONE pizza.

What does this do for a relationship - 1. every ones needs are getting met

2. you both worked together

3. no one lost any part of themselves

As simple as I made this sound, it has real applications in today's real world of couples not communicating and meeting each others needs. If you break down conflict it means, one side feels they are getting used. Once this starts and has time to build (meaning this happens over and over again) we have an explosion in the relationship.

So why don't we just make it as simple as "Think Pizza" and enjoy!