Trampled !
It is self, of course, that we imagine we have lost in a divorce. It is never the other person - (Not Really). What we imagine we have lost is our very self. Every idea about our self is trampled on. That we are loving and we are lovable. That we are nice to be with, and someone whom no one would ever want to leave, all is trample.
When we go through a divorce, our lives can feel terribly scrambled - but - it is when we come out of our shell that we become whole at last. We think we are falling apart but it may actually be falling together for the first time.
Divorce at it's core is a legal problem or relationship issue - but - at it's most fundamental level it is a SPIRITUAL problem. Although legal remedies and relational insights are important, the essential need of a divorcing spouse is a spiritual need.
by
Debbie Ford
A TRANSFORMATION - NOT AN ENDING
It is self, of course, that we imagine we have lost in a divorce. It is never the other person - (Not Really). What we imagine we have lost is our very self. Every idea about our self is trampled on. That we are loving and we are lovable. That we are nice to be with, and someone whom no one would ever want to leave, all is trample.
When we go through a divorce, our lives can feel terribly scrambled - but - it is when we come out of our shell that we become whole at last. We think we are falling apart but it may actually be falling together for the first time.
Divorce at it's core is a legal problem or relationship issue - but - at it's most fundamental level it is a SPIRITUAL problem. Although legal remedies and relational insights are important, the essential need of a divorcing spouse is a spiritual need.
by
Debbie Ford
A TRANSFORMATION - NOT AN ENDING
I understand that this may be hard to get but that's were prayer comes in and our father will feed us the spiritual food for wisdom. I'm not, nor is our ministry an advocate of divorce but when it happens someone has to be there to help them back into the arms of there father.
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